Sad And Painful Questions We Never Find Answers To 2
1. Men Versus Women
Why do we allow men do/say whatever they want, but brow-beat it when a woman does the same thing? Why is it ‘a normal thing’ for men to cheat and then the society frowns at a cheating woman?
Why are women considered ‘strong’ when they constantly forgive and stick with a man that cheats/lies/or physically abuse them but considered a SHAME and a SIGN OF WEAKNESS when a man forgives and takes back his cheating/lying wife??? Why????? Why is the man considered a ‘tough-guy’ when he has a sex body count higher than 10, but it’s a shameful thing for a woman to have more than 3?????
2. Judging people based on what you think they have:
Why do we judge people based on their outward appearances? Why do we assume they are rich or poor based on the design of their clothes or the type of phone they are carrying? Why do we assume girls that wear Brazilian and lace bundles are slay queens and the girls with Afros and natural hairstyles are ‘good girls’?
Why do we assume IPhone users are wealthier than Android users?????Why?
Why do we find it easy to use people? Why is it now considered ‘normal’ to take advantage of others just to achieve a certain goal? Why is it easier to flock around people that are seemingly ‘making it’ in life and abandon those that are hustling/struggling? Why is it normal for them to stroll back into your life when you become rich/famous and begin to claim “I know her very well, she was my neighbor” or “she was my friend in secondary school”…
Overtime you’d realize the best person you have to do it and sacrifice all for is ‘YOU’. Pleasing people would only leave you damaged because the want/need of every man is insatiable, they can never get enough of you until you totally become irrelevant, and please ladies/guys, DO NOT EVER GET TO THAT STAGE!!! Agreed, no one is indispensable, but biko, avoid SEE FINISH